Yes, you can still file a complaint with the local authorities and attempt to have her arrested. If you don't want your son to testify in open court, ask for a Lincoln Hearing. That would mean that your son and his attorney would discuss what he saw with the judge outside the presence of you and his mother. This is not uncommon.
Yes---it can be done. Speak to your attorney.
Joseph A. Lo Piccolo, Esq.
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If she violated the order you can have her arrested. You can call the child as a witness but I would only do that as a last resort. Discuss the issues with your attorney and if you don't have one get one.
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