The mother breaking a restraining order is a crime. Contact the police and file a complaint. Her leaving your child with someone is evidence of a lack of good judgment at best, and may constitute abandonment. You should file a petition to modify your parenting plan, if you have one, or a petition for parenting plan or residential schedule. Your current restraining order should have a provision giving you emergency custody.
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