It is hard to understand why you would allow your daughter to drive a car in which she is not insured. That is being penny wise and pound foolish.
You say that it "isn't my car", yet you appear to say you are a registered co-owner. If your name is on the title, its partly your car. Depending on the state where the accident occurred, an owner or co-owner of a vehicle can be responsible for damages caused by the vehicle in which you have an ownership interest.
How is it that she was excluded from your policy? Why do you think you would need to give her permission to drive her own car, with or without insurance? If she is a co-owner on the title, she has a right to drive it.
If you have not done so already, I suggest that you report this incident to your automobile liability insurance carrier and ask them to defend you against this claim from State Farm. If the basis of State Farm's allegations against you is solely based on ownership, you may have some coverage under your policy, even if your daughter is excluded from the policy.
Is difficult to understand how you ever got in this situation. I suggest that you sit down with an independent insurance agent and discuss the type of coverage that you and your daughter need to have to protect both of you in the future.
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