My mom divorced my father when I was 2 months old. She remarried when I was 3.
When I was 9, my adopted fathers parents paid to have me adopted and to take on his their family name. To carry on the name if you will. I am 36 now and with a family of my own. I don't want to change my name, but when I was adopted, they removed my biological fathers name and inserted my step fathers. my mother later divorced him, and he isn't what most would call father material. I haven't spoke to him in 5yrs. I now have a great relationship with my biological father, and he is the only Grandfather my daughtersi know. I want to undo something that I really misunderstood or would approve of now. Any help would be great. Thanks.