That won't work. You can get a divorce and an economic settlement - but the rest seems unattainable. Consult a local attorney and work through the issues.
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You can only recover 50% of the 2 years that you were married. No, you cannot get the judge to order him to pay for fertility treatments.
You are only entitled to half of his retirement from the date of marriage to the date of separation.
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