If you're both committing adultery, you would not succeed on a divorce complaint with those grounds. You may have other remedies available to you regarding the living situation and assistance with the bills; however, you will need an attorney's assistance. I recommend using the "Find a Lawyer" feature on this site to assist you.
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You may file a Complaint for Absolute Divorce if you have been separated for at least one year, or if he has committed adultery, and there are a few other bases for Absolute Divorce. It is usually easier to prove a one year separation than it is to prove adultery, so most couples use the one year separation as the basis for their divorce, and it is less stressful.
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You can file criminal charges in MD against your husband for adultery. The fine is $10. However, I think when you say you want to "file adultery", you are referring to filing for divorce for cause based on your husband's adultery. You can also do this if you wish; however, as other counsel pointed out, if you are also committing adultery, you could run into trouble.
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I am not totally clear on your "friend", but I suggest you meet with an attorney.
If your husband is committing adultery you can file for divorce; however, that may not be the smart thing to do. If you are paying all of the bills and your husband is refusing to move out, depending on the circumstances, you may be better advised to simply move out yourself. Factors such as who owns the house, who is on the mortgage or lease, does your husband have the ability to contribute towards expenses, these are just a few of the issues that you should discuss with an attorney. The cost of consulting with a divorce attorney is small compared to what is at issue and being trapped, for what sounds like long time, in an unhappy relationship.