My ex has custody according to order, however the order says I can have my child fly to my home state for visit. Ex refuses to let my child come here and constantly harasses and stalks my new spouse. IF my new spouse gets a restraining order against my ex spouse to stop the harassment, how will this effect MY visitation time? Basically, my ex threatened that they were going to file a police report and place an emergency RO against my spouse saying that my spouse was harassing her if I try to get my child to come visit here. My ex has written letters in the past and sent numerous emails threatening my spouse, my other children and myself and I feel it is getting out of control.I just want my child to be able to come here without any problems (as the order says he can)- but my ex is willing to do ANYTHING to prevent this from happening. I live out of state and have low income (limiting my ability to bring my family to CA to visit). My ex, as most ex’s do, does not like my current spouse for whatever reason and does not want my child to ever meet. She has even gone as far as filing false police reports stating that my spouse is harassing her.