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The internet is a powerful tool for spreading information...including the bad kinds. An entire industry has popped up where websites publish publicly available information (such as arrest records) and then charge you to take it down. If this website has an option for removal of information and you have satisfied all of their requirements, you may have a cause of action against them. You should find out where the website is hosted and begin your attorney search there.
I often say as cocktail chatter that there is no gravity on the Internet, what goes up does not come down.
That having been said, I have worked for dozens of clients to get information removed or search engine de-listed. I would say the success rate for these kinds of actions among Internet attorneys is around 70% and that the cost is from $1,000 to $1,500. It all depends on the circumstances.
If you know who the poster is, another avenue many clients take is to have a lawyer write a cease and desist letter to the person. While a cease and desist letter has little legal effect, it will tell the poster he could get in legal hot water which will cost him a lot of legal fees if nothing else.
You may want to discuss your situation with a lawyer in more detail. Most lawyers on Avvo, including myself, offer a free phone consultation.
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