To get a divorce, you must notify your spouse by filing a Complaint for divorce. She may waive service and further notice, but must do so in writing. Once you have filed the Complaint in Circuit Court, then schedule a hearing with the judge's secretary for a final divorce. You must bring a witness with you and have either your spouse's waiver of notice or you must serve your spouse with notice of the hearing and your intent to request a final divorce.
I really recommend that you at least spend the money to sit down with an attorney to review paperwork and this process.
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