The first thing you should do -- even before counseling for the child -- is hire an attorney. You should have legal counsel as you're making these decisions.
You're going to need an expert to testify about the emotional distress, if there is any. I'm not hearing it. the mother talks with the child about the case and the mother shouldn't do that. That doesn't necessarily equate "emotional distress," however.
So, start with talking to a lawyer.
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I am sorry your child is going through such a difficult time. I would absolutely retain an attorney immediately. You want to make sure the counselor you hire is familiar enough with these kinds of situations to properly assess what is going on.
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In order to modify/change the custody arrangement you will definitely need to hire an experienced family law attorney. The attorney will know how to present the mental health issues you reference in a proper way to give the court sufficient basis to change the custody arrangement.
First and foremost, you should hire an attorney. Don't even seek counseling for your daughter before you retain an attorney.
If the mother is violating the parenting agreement, then you can, and should, seek to have her held in contempt of court.
This facet pattern begs unquestionably did you agree to this parenting schedule when you knew the mother suffered trousers mental illness? If you feel in any way the mother is endangering the cold you must take immediate action. I agree you must go in person and consult with a custody attorney. Do that before the counselor. You child could be in physical danger also. If so get an Order of Protection.
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I agree with Wes. You first need to hire a lawyer. Your lawyer will petition the court for a change in custody. The court will want proof in the way of an expert, i.e., child psychologist, (probably court appointed) who will provide the court with their opinion. The judge will then make its decision. Do not hire a psychologist on your own!
You should hire an attorney. How long ago was the current custody order entered? If its been more than two years, then you can file an action. You'll have to do mediation and then likely seek appointment of a custody evaluator or GAL. If its been less than two years, I'd suggest attempting to modify parenting time instead of visitation. If there is no primary residential parent and equal parenting time, the argument would be that there is no actual modification of custody being sought. Such an argument, while available, may not succeed.
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