YOur question raises a number of questions. First, since you seemed to have a sizeable estate subject to equitable distribution, I would assume that one of the assets was your pension. Most judgements of divorce plan for the reduction in the supporting spouse's income at the time of retirement. And, I should add that that retirement at age 65 is considered standard. I am curious about your wife's access to social security. At any rate, you need to bring your jedugement of divorce and all of the relevant documents you can produce to an attorney to determine the feasibility of filing a "Lepis" motion in the attempt to reduce your alimony.
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