If this was an actual OFP it would have to be your fiancée who applied for the OFP. If she requested that it be dropped before being put into place, the Judge would have no power to order the OFP.
However, I suspect that what you are actually talking about is a DANCO (Domestic Abuse No Contact Order) - which is commonly put into place during criminal charges of abuse. The DANCO can be put into place against your fiancée's wishes. The DANCO can also be put into place without a conviction, as long as charges are being pursued.
Once a report of Domestic Abuse has occurred, the State has the power to continue prosecuting, even against the wishes of your fiancée. I would strongly advise you to find an attorney that can discuss your case with and see what can be done.
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