I am married to a person who hordes everything she can see, our house looks like Hillsboro landfill recycling place ( no exaggeration) . I would have divorced her a long time ago, but we have 8 year old daughter. My wife said if we get divorced I would rarely be allowed to see my child and only with her permission. My child is the only reason we live in the same house. It would have been much easier for me and my child to have a clean suitable and peaceful home. I am not trying to take child away from the mother, I am just looking for way out. My wife is never home she is always busy shopping, collecting goodwill goodies, going to all kinds of meeting, garage sales, spending time with others, and comes home at a very late hour. My daughter is everything I have. Please Help ?Besides school I spend most of the time with my daughter taking her to swimming classes, doing homework with her, spending time at playground, basically she is always with me. Before I received threats from my wife If I was to divorce I would have to go through a lot of trouble just to see my child, she said she will take custody of a child and will make sure to restrict contact with my daughter . I am afraid that she might provide false statements against me, and I would not be able to see my child. She gets very, very angry when I offer to seek professional help to fix our marriage. Please Help ??????