I filed my own divorce which rewarded me the domicile parent. Unfortunately I didn't realize that I had a piece of the paper work missing that regarded custody issues. Now my childrens' father gets every other weekend. He exposes them to drug deals, physical and mental abuse. I tried to get a restraining order against him and was denied. He doesn't pay child support, he doesn't have a job, and he doesn't have a home or adequate sleeping space for our 13 year old daughter or our 10 year old son. Both of our children are scared to confront him about any of these issues. Since the judge denied the restraining order because it was "for protection and not custody issues" I am beside myself. I am a single mom with limited income. I need help.