You are in a difficult spot.
I have included a link below to a page from the Texas Bar on how to find a pro bono lawyer.
Tough to get an attorney in a high conflict divorce to work for free. Your best bet is your local legal services or someone who believes that the judge will award you attorney fees from your wealthy ex-husband. This is going to take a lot of time, money, and energy from any attorney's regular practice.
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Depending on your income, Lone Star and Volunteer Lawyers can help. You could try to talk with the Legal Aid Clinics at the law schools.
Pro bono services are backed up for months. You should have contacted them 6-9 months ago. Their wait lists are really long. I doubt you can have an attorney by December trial date. But go ahead and call them.
I'd look on this website for a family law attorney in the Houston area. This is the best website that I'm aware of for the public to locate experienced family law attorneys in the State of Texas. You can read people's answers and find one that you "connect" with and feel comfortable with.
Many attorneys offer a free consultation either by phone or in person.
As I'm sure you are aware, a board certified attorney will be more expensive, so you probably need to avoid contacting those attorneys and wasting your time and energy. You need to look for non-board certified attorneys that have a family law practice of 75% or more with many years of experience.
You can also go to the courthouse on a Monday and/or Tuesday morning around 9am and go into the courtrooms and actually watch attorneys in action to see if you observe any that you might like. Get their business cards and then call them for an appointment.
The Women's Center is wonderful -- but you've waited until the last minute to find an attorney for a December trial. You are in "crunch" time. You are probably not going to find a lot of attorneys willing to accept your "high conflict case" very attractive this late in the game & it appears you have no money to pay them. Most attorneys have a lot of office overhead expenses and lots of clients complaining that they have no money and every client feels that their case is "compelling" -- I get a phone call like yours on a weekly basis! (Unfortunately, your story is just not very unusual to an experienced family law attorney.)
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Yes, you can get a pro bono through one of The law schools. But, you need a really good lawyer, one who will go after your ex to pay your attorney fees. In Houston, I suggest you call Joe Indelicato or Randy Wilhite.
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