You don't count the total years of marriage. This divorce only addresses the current marriage, so you would use the 2008 date as your date of marriage. Those fill in the blank forms leave a lot to be desired. If you have children and disagree about custody or have large amounts of property and retirement, you need a lawyer.
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Yes. You are dissolving the 2008 marriage.
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