Well, presuming this was an ex parte temporary order, you can request that the TPO expire by the simple expedient of not showing up at the extension hearing (the rules say it will automatically be terminated). If it is already an extended order, have your wife file a motion to have the TPO extinguished on expedited hearing, and sign for her a statement that you agree. For background and reference to the statutes, see http://www.willicklawgroup.com/domestic_violence.
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