Lawyers have an ethical obligation to act with decorum. I would recommend that you follow that same ethical guideline, regardless of how the opposing lawyer is acting. The reason has little to do with the law and more to do with the respect you will receive from the Judge. if you appear to be doing your best and acting with intelligence rather than emotion, the Judge will be more likely to give you a little bit of freedom.
As for stipulating to motions, the answer is that it depends (on which court and on which motion). If you are in federal court, for most motions you do have to seek stipulation. If you are in state court, the same is not true, except that you should seek a stipulation for the primary discovery motions (Motion to Compel and Motion for Protective Order). The reason you'd do it on a discovery motion is that, if you prevail on the motion, you may be entitled to recovery of your costs in having brought that motion, but you lose that opportunity for recovery if you did not confer in good faith with the other side.
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It is a lawyers job to represent their clients, and unless the motions are completely frivolous, it sounds as if he is doing it. Experienced lawyers not how to exploit the weaknesses of pro se litigants and while he should be respectful to you, he doesn't owe you any quarter because you are pro se. If you tell him he's petty and ridiculous, he'll know that he has you right where he wants you. You might as well leave him guessing.
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It seems to me that, other than the tone and demeanor he uses when communicating with you, the attorney is doing what he should be if his Motions have merit. When you decide to represent yourself you are held to the same standards as an attorney in preparing pleadings properly. In Small Claims cases the judges typically allow more leeway, but in civil actions, you are on your own, literally.
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Counsel's ethical obligation is to treat you with respect. You should probably treat counsel with respect as well.
Often cases are won or lost based on what people think are "minor technicalities." So, without knowing exactly what has transpired in your case, it is impossible to say whether councils actions have been proper.
There is an obligation to try to work out most matters before premium issue to the judge. A certificate of "good faith" is required if the motion regards discovery. Some judges require the certificate for other motions as well. Nevertheless, one person's "good faith" could certainly be another persons "minor technicality."
I suggest you get a copy of the Rules of Civil Procedure, you can download them from the Florida bar website, and study them. But it than that, if there is enough involved, retain a lawyer.
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