I have not paid child support for a year. I also owed arrears from the previous years. I left my job last year so my paycheck wouldn't be garnished anymore by SCU. I can't afford child support since I got married and have a stepchild and a new baby. My new wife can't work because of the baby so it's too much for me. I stopped visiting my child so I won't have to pay. I left the country because I'm afraid of going to jail. The mother is crazy and keeps taking me to court because she is greedy for the money. She won't give me a brake. I owe over 30 thousand now. I know she doesn't spend it all on our child.