If your attorney has not done so already, be sure that your attorney files a written response for you with the court OR confirms an extension to respond. Extensions are often granted by the plaintiff's lawyer to the defendant or defense counsel, so that you don't need to sweat the pressing deadline, while engaging in good faith settlement discussions.
You are correct: you would lose leverage if a default judgment is taken, unless one of the steps above are taken by your lawyer. Your lawyer's experience is not unusual. Some cases take weeks or even months to settle. Simply because you make an offer to settle does not mean that it will be accepted. Offers and counter offers can go back and forth until both sides agree. It can take further negotiation to get a settlement agreement ready for signatures of the parties.
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It is not normal. Your attorney is doing you a disservice. Make sure you get in writing the opposing counsel's promise not to have a default entered against you. If there is any delay, you should file an answer or a demurrer to buy time so that you can hire competent counsel to represent your interests. http://richarddwyer.com
The first thing that should have happened is there was an agreement by counsel to any extension of time to allow settlement negotiations. If it has been a week, that is not unreasonable. If it has been a few weeks, that still may not be unreasonable but when you get into months for a "small civil case", that starts to be unreasonable. If you have confirmed the extension of time to respond, stay in touch with your attorney to keep this on the front burner.
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