You don't have to sign anything if you were served, you need an answer filed. Depending on when the divorce petition was filed, it could be that you have as much as 2 months until you can be defaulted, or it could be as short as 21 days if you were served some time after the petition was filed. I really suggest you consult with an attorney ASAP.
If you do not respond to the suit, it does not matter what you agree with or not. The court can grant her requests if you have not answered the suit.
Based on what you have written, the time period to respond is generally 20 days. There are many factors which go into how to calculate the 20 days, as they are typically not 20 straight days. You generally do not have to sign anything when being served with a law suit. If you don't want to agree to the proposal, then you have the possibility to negotiate additional items, terms, etc. You should really consult with a local law firm to ensure that your are fully protecting your rights and interests in this proceeding.
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If you were served on 8/13/10, your answer to the lawsuit is due September 6th. If you don't agree with the proposed divorce documents, you are under no obligation to sign them. You probably should hire a lawyer and go over your options. You need to do this sooner rather than later so that the lawyer has time to prepare the answer and get their work done for other clients.
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