Speak with a local attorney immediately! If your circumstances are truly compelling, you should be able to get an emergency order. You can search the attorney profiles here on AVVO to find someone in your area. Good luck!
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My first question to you would be what are the reasons that you have for wanting to establish paternity prior to the child being born?
Normally, a petition to determine parentage of a child arises after a child has been born and, usually, is raised by the purported father as part of a defense to a petition for child support or affirmatively to support his petition for custody and/or visitation of the child where his parentage is being denied by the mother -- neither of which usually occurs until after the child is born. I am aware of a few isolated cases in other states where an alleged father has filed for custody of an unborn child in an effort to control certain detrimental activities of the mother while the child is in utero (such as where mother was an alcoholic and father was seeking to have the mother confined to a rehab facility for the duration of the pregnancy). However, I am not aware of any such cases in Virginia.
Virginia statute requires that the mother and the child make themselves available for DNA testing, as directed by the court, in a paternity suit. So, your being in England may create some difficulty in this regard. Additionally, if the child is born outside of the U.S. and remains there, then there may be some jurisdictional issues. Jurisdiction for the paternity suit would exist where the child was conceived, but jurisdiction for custody, visitation, and support may need to be initiated in England (as the child's home jurisdiction) and would then involve application of multi-national jurisdiction issues, such as whether England has a reciprocity agreement with the U.S. for initiation and enforcement of child custody and support orders.
In my opinion, your question raises some complicated issues to which there is no easy, simple answer. I recommend that you consult with an experienced family law attorney and that you do so prior to leaving the country.
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