My fiancee and I got into an argument 10 days ago. To keep a long story short with some relevant details I grew up being abused severally by a few different significant men in my life. During the argument I lost it emotionally and began crying uncontrolably. My fiancee was just trying to do the "hold me tight until I calmed down" hug but in that moment all I could see was the past abuse that played a significant role in my life. Him trying to hold me I saw as him hurting me and I called 911. He knows my history, and has always been very supportive of me. I didn't know that the courts would automatically put a no contact order on him, and I regret calling the cops and wasting their time. He has NEVER hurt me, and neither of us can afford an attorney. At a lost here.We also have 2 young children together, and because of my history of abuse I feel like he's not only being punished but our children also. He is a good father and a great caring fiancee, and I just want to be able to fix a situation that completely got out of control due to my history. I have also talked to a DV advocate from the local YWCA and she said he needs to plea guilty, although he isn't guilty of anything. When I explained to her my frame of mind that night, she said she would contact the DA office and have someone call me but that hasn't happened. When I first contacted the YWCA and left a message (prior to actually speaking to her) I also contacted the DA office and they said in their email response they have brocheures and to contact the YWCA. It feels like I'm running in circles.