fd case, joint custy, phy custy w mom,/parentng time in place. when I am off I get our child from babysitter's. mom is at work. I always ASK HER PERMISSION, sometimes she say no because, "our son is too much time w u lately". went to court and got order for "rite for 1st refusal". after that I continued asking for her permission as before. lately she started dening me since her mom will care for our son which i filed a motion against that unilateral decision.I have many days off during summer reserved 4 my baby. She called cops saying that if i show up to the babysitter I am breaking parenting time. Can I use my rite of 1st refusal? how does it work? I have to send e mail to mother saying I am using this right? tired beg her, cops, judge, babysitter to see MY OWN SON!crt order says rite of 1 refusal(ex: if parent is off from work can spend time w son). For the last 3 yrs during the summer each other friday i picked my son from babysitter 1:30pm until sat 6PM, visit plan says from 5PM friday to 6Pm sat. since she is being conflictive I want to use the rite of refusal to get the time frame from 1:30 to 5PM.SHe usually pick my baby at 3-3:30. Makes more sense have my son w me from 1:30 that I am off like we have done it for 3 yrs already
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