It is preferable to get the other side to sign a stipulation that you then bring to court. If they won't you ask the court.
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See response to other question you asked. As for requesting adjournment - ask the opposing counsel/party if they will consent to adjournment, then contact the judge's chamber noting that the opposing party consents. Do so as far in advance of the appearance date as possible.