Many more facts would be needed to answer your question. The length of the marriage, when those assets were accumulated, how those assets were accumulated, etc. You can deny being cooperative with your spouse, but they likely eventually a judge will split up your marital estate for you, which will likely prove to me much more expensive.
This is not the forum to get an answer to your question. If you have 7-8 figure assets, you should be meeting with an attorney in a confidential setting to discuss your options and expectations. You can find attorneys by searching among the profiles here on Avvo. Good luck!
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I agree with my colleagues and add one additional point. If it is a settlement it means you both came to an agreement. So the terms are what you agreed to
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I agree with all my colleagues and strongly advise you not to enter into any agreements without a competent attorney. A separation agreement is like any other contract and you may have some defenses.
I think when you mean "settlement" you are really asking how this will most likely end up if decided by a judge. As colleagues mentioned, a "settlement" is what is negotiated. So, what a court will probably do affects what you and your spouse will settle for. As mentioned, there are way too many variables here to answer this. Get a good attorney, know that a good attorney will require an appropriate retainer, esp since there is so much to fight over here AND matrimonials are often highly contentious, time-consuming AND the atty can't just quit when the client's retainer runs out. It is NOT greed, at least with me and the people I work with. You may also want to make sure your attorney has funds to try to confirm your suspicions-you would be surprised at what a PI can find and how, even if the things the PI finds don't "technically" affect the legal aspects, they may impact the other party's willingness to negotiate. So, maybe he is filmed with...I won't get into details of what i have seen and/or heard about but you get the idea
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