Court order states the following : Non Custodial Parent visits on alternate weekends from Fri. thru Sun, that he should also take minor on schedule extracurricular activities on Friday and Explorer police program on Saturday- on his schedule visits, NCP pick up at daughters home.If he failed to take minor to Friday activity twice consecutively or not, then Visitation schedule shall automatically begin 10am on saturday morning. This was added because NCP has a tendency to come in and out of minor's life. NCP failed to exercise his visitations as schedule for 5 months. I made our teenager available to him and would go as far as dropping her off after practice at his home. I had to take daughter to police program.Recently CS dispute has NCP wanting to reinstate original visitation order.Claims he never missed a visit and always took minor to programs, then claims that I never made minor available on his visits. Initially he agreed to switch weekends, i thought that would help. It didn't. Now, he's threatening to come with the police on his next "Friday" visit with court document. How do I help myself and prove that he never exercised his visits and therefor lost Friday's to court or police? i don't want to be held in contemp. Coaches and Police officers knew that that was no show, i had to pick up the pieces of minor's heart when he failed to show, and when I did drop her off, he wasn't home and she had to stay with whomever was there. I have learned that much more laws protect NCP and not enough protect CP, NCP don't have to exercise their visit's. How do i protect my right's in court or when police come? what are my rights? Forgot to mention: Per my Lawyer: I sent a notice to NCP with regards to his lost of friday visits and the need to contact me 48advance if pick up on sat.
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