She could go to her county's prosecutor's office and sign up for the IV-D program. They will establish paternity and as part of that process, will likely get your wife sole custody if the father has had no interaction with the minor child.
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Matthew R. Shipman
Bloom Gates Sigler & Whiteleather, LLP
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Columbia City, IN 46725
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