My uncle died a year ago. A trust was created where my father (his brother) is to be taken care of the rest of his life if he cannot support himself. My father can support himself without the money from the trust. My father (a very private man) refuses to release tax returns and bank statements in order to be eleigble for funds as requested by the bank. If my father dies or wants to remove himself the reamaining monies in the trust will are to be released to myself (nephew), my sister (neice) and charites in that order. How do we notify the trustee (bank) that my father is ready to release his name and distribute the funds in accordance to his brothers will? Hope this makes sense?