First, you say "we have joint" then you say "he has sole". Not sure what this means. So the answer is a bit general.
If you have filed for sole custody and social services are involved, then you may want to check with them on your options. You should also bring to your court hearing as much data/proof of the dv situation he went to jail for. And you should get some legal advice. You can always seek the help of the family law court self help clinics.Ask a similar question
You said you filed for sole custody. Do you mean you filed a motion requesting a change in the current custody orders? If that isn't what you mean, then that is what you need to do.Ask a similar question
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