My ex-boyfriend and I planned to move out of state. I left before he did, and he insisted that I take all of his belongings with me. Once here, he changed his mind and started suing me not only for his stuff but also mine, for a total of over 80k. I was advised to file bankruptcy, and now he has filed an adversary proceeding. I cannot afford a lawyer, and am not sure how to respond. Do I tell the whole story, or only specifically respond to his allegations?