One night my boyfriend started a verbal argument and was name calling and I threw a glass of water on his face, he threw buckets of water on me and then on my bed where our baby was sleeping on the heating pad that was plugged in and I jumped on his back to make him stop he then followed me to the bathroom and pulled my hair and thrashed me around the bathroom and I got bruises and a sprained toe and medical report after spending 3 days in jail. I wrote in my police report what he did but they still arrested me for throwing the can, Assault with a deadly weapon and domestic violence. I was protecting myself and he got a bloody nose and I don't know how he came out of the spare bathroom with one when he went in it was not bleeding & then called cops. How do I explain this for a job ap?Also this is his second time he has actually gone head to head with a signifigant other, his ex wife 5 years ago was punched in the face. I had no idea and its possible his first wife too, he knows a ton on expunging I have never even been in a relationship like this and the week before court he pummeled me again and I learned to walk away and lock my two kids up and sit in my car and stare into the window so he leaves them alone. He's also verbally abusive and I have him on tape saying he did what night infact touch me like stated in the report and I have the pummeling recorded as it was happening, and I have him on tape calling me a murderer because my husband died after we left the military and he was ran over by a car and he said it was my fault. They said because they dropped the felony if we took it to trial I might get hte felony back so I had to plea and we were not able to use the tape.