Ex filed in FL I moved to Cali 4 months ago. I have a 3 month baby and 2 year old. I fled the state 35 weeks prego due to him leaving me to live on the streets and threats of violence and no income. He contacted the police and tried getting me in trouble for kidnapping and concealing my address, state attorney said he needed to go to court they would not pursue charges against. I refused to give him my address for safety, he has published my name in the paper this week. I asked the courts to reserve me with my updated address and got nothing. I don't want a default divorce. How long before he can get one? I really would like the case transferred here, can I file a counter claim and ask for a change venue or do I file a change of venue first?