Remain calm during the hearing no matter what garbage he says. Listen to the instructions from your attorney. I doubt the other side can prove the allegations and you should have the order invalidated. Judges do not like to hear that their orders are "fake." They prefer to be told that there is not valid factual reason for issuing the order. Keep in mind the court gives the other side the benefit of the doubt until it is shown in a court of law that there is no basis for it. Good luck.
The questioner might find some of my legal guides helpful:
My legal guides on law in general and about attorneys
An Introduction to Legal Terms used in Litigation
How the Public Views Lawyers and How Movies and TV Shape their Views,
• Is it Legal? Is it Illegal?
• How to Select and Hire a Lawyer
• Understanding the Different Court Systems
• Limits on a Lawyer's License: What the Attorney Can and Cannot Do
My legal guides on New York
• New York City: A Guide to the Courts
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