You should speak with an attorney about whether your father has capacity to sign a POA. In general, if a person does not have capacity, then the next option be for you to begin a guardianship proceeding. That involves making a motion to the court to have the court declare your father incapacitated. If he is incapacitated, the court would also appoint a guardian to manage his affairs. You could be appointed. However, your brother will be notified that you brought the action. He could apply to be appointed guardian as well. The ultimate decision would be with the court. An attorney would be able to help you through this process.
Christopher J. Roman, Esq.
You may be past the Power of Attorney point if he cannot make competent decisions. You may talk with the doctor to see if he has lucid times of day but it seems like you need to set up a guardianship and get the checkbook from the brother. Find an attorney in NJ to start the guardianship proceedings. You will likely have to give notice to your brother and he may object but that will be where you point out, and hopefully have proof of, the fact he is stealing dad's money. You should talk to an attorney who is versed in probate and elder law issues. Best of luck to you.
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