Did your "Notice of Appearance and Demand" include a demand for a Complaint or something else? If so, I suggest you start by calling the attorney you served and ask them if they are planning to serve you with a Complaint. If you don't like the response or you don't get any response at all, you can purchase an RJI and file a motion to dismiss, but unless you file a counterclaim, you will not be granted a default judgment because you are not the party seeking relief. I suggest you at least consult with a local attorney to review all your rights, options and obligations before you take any further action. This doesn't have to be terribly expensive, and the information you receive in your consultation usually will save you a LOT of time and worry. You can find attorneys in your area by searching among the profiles here on AVVO. Good luck!
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