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How do I move out of state with my 5 year old son, when ex partner has visitation rights?

Fresno, CA |

Shortly after my son was born, I left my partner..There is a domestic violence restraining order in effect and he has weekly unsupervised visits. I wish to move out of state for school and work. Since I have sole legal and physical custody I would hope that would make it easier to move. However, since there are visitation rights in effect I wonder how the best way to move would be. Father does not have over night visits thus far. My son is not in school yet, I would like to move before he starts his first year. I also have family and friends on the east coast to serve as support where I would like to live. Father does not have child support order in effect. What will increase my chances of being grated a "move away?"

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The easiest way would be to speak with your ex and have him agree to the move. You should have a plan as to how your son would visit with his father once you moved. If the father does not agree, you can file a request for modification in court. If the father files documents against you moving away, the judge will likely send you to mediation. There, you would have the opportunity to explain why the move would be good for your son, and the father would have the opportunity to explain his position as well. If your moving will result in better resources and opportunities for you, it shouldn't be a problem.

This response is informational only and is based only on the information provided in the question. These matters are very fact-specific, and the response may change based on the specific facts of your case. This response does not create an attorney-client relationship or any continuing to duty to provide legal advice. If you require further assistance, plase contact an attorney at once.


There are two ways to seek approval for a move away in your situation, one is to petition the court, and the second is to obtain your ex-partner's approval. Certain legal processes have to be followed in both cases. The court will look at a number of factors in determining if a move away should be grated, including the amount of time your e-partner spends with the child, the benefits of the move versus the disadvantages and possibly a new visitation order that would still allow contact between your ex-partner and your child.

The answer is based upon the limited information provided and does not create an attorney-client privileged relationship.

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