Temporary orders become permanent orders in one of 3 ways:
1. Default Judgment (does not sound likely as it sounds like both of you have appeared in court)
2. Stipulated Judgment (a judgment that both of you agree to)
3. Trial, and the Judge makes the order.
Please note that this answer does not constitute legal advice, and should not be relied on, as each situation is fact specific, and it is not possible to evaluate a legal problem without a comprehensive consultation and review of all the facts and court pleadings filed in the case. This answer does not create an attorney-client relationship
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