It is very clear that you need legal counsel to help navigate this situation. I would contact Amy Lambert, (512) 472-1919, and schedule a consult. She can get you on track. It may be a situation wherein you need to seek termination based upon the mother's abandonment or step-up access based upon the recommendations of a therapist. God's speed.
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