If you have been served with court documents, you should hire an attorney to represent you. Your type of case depends on the specific facts, the statutes, and case law. Not knowing the statutes and case law would put you at a disadvantage.
Generally, the potential parents of a child have four years after the birth of the child to challenge the parentage of the child.
Before the court orders genetic testing, the court will decide whether it is in the child's best interest for genetic testing to be done.
If the father has been acting as a good father to the child these three years, it is unlikely that the court would order genetic testing.
The statutes are mostly in Chapter 26.26 RCW (UNIFORM PARENTAGE ACT) at http://apps.leg.wa.gov/rcw/default.aspx?Cite=26 .
You have only a few days to respond to the summons. If you are late, you may be defaulted.
You should ask the court to appoint a guardian ad litem for the child. It is likely that the court would appoint a GAL even if neither parent wants a GAL as the statutes require that a child older than two to be represented by a GAL.
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