I admire your willingness to step-in and be a shield for your grand-daughter. All children should be so fortunate.
Unfortunately, obtaining Guardianship when the parents are both still alive is very difficult unless they are willing to step away from this role. You should contact an experienced South Carolina attorney to advise you as to next steps. Good luck to you.
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