I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father....
In terms of probating his will and "changing" his executor, you should really have an attorney review the will and the wishes of any named or successor executors to determine how to appoint a new executor.
Before the will is admitted into probate, you must have the right to review and agree to the will being probated and an executor appointed OR challenge the will and/or the proposed executor/executrix.
I recommend that you speak to an attorney about your specific case. Many, including myself, offer a free confidential consultation.
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As a distributee of your father's estate you are entitled to see a copy of the document that is being presented to the Surrogate's Court as his Last Will and Testament. It can take time for all the papers that need to be submitted to the court along with the will to be gathered, either by the proposed executor or their attorney.
If the nominated executor does not wish to serve the terms of the will would control who could step up next to be appointed.
If the proposed executor has retained an attorney you must keep in mind that the attorney does not represent the entire family. It may be in your best interest to consult with your own attorney if you have concerns about the will or eventual distribution of assets.
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You are entitled to view the will before it is probated as explained in previous answer.
You oldest sister can resign so the youngest sister can be appointed if she is the next nominated person.
The answer given does not imply that an attorney-client relationship has been established and your best course of action is to have legal representation in this matter.