How can i get custody of a 14 year old from her aunt? I am not related but the littlw girl desperately wants to live with me. She was put in a different home beside her aunts through dss but her aunt has custody and doesn't want her to come stay with me. Im well fit and a stable home. i know her well but the only problem is that i am in a wheelchair. Would that be a set back? And if so what could i do to get her?