Wow,you have several issues going on here. First, your husband should not cannot remarry while he is married to you. Secondly, you can get a divorce if he is in Mexcio, but there are notification service issues to address. You may be able to do it by publication. You have to obtain personal service over him to be ordered child support. I would suggest calling the clerks office in the county where the divorce was started to see if it was actually filed, give them yours and his name, if so I would need to see those pleadings and everything that was filed. If nothing was filed then there are several alternatives/issues to talk about that can be rather complex and would be best served speaking with me or any other attorney,
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