It seems like you're being bullied by your wife's attorney and it is unfortunate that legal aid will not assist you.
I am not sure about the laws in MO, but I can tell you that in FL you have 30 calendar days from the day you are served with the interrogatories to answer them. You send the answers to your wife's attorney and file a notice with the court advising them that you have responded to the interrogatories. You do not file the responses with the court. You do have a right to send her interrogatories as well, and she too will have 30 days to respond to them.
I agree with the previous answer, but I wanted to add if you want to find an attorney pro bono or for reduced fees, you can always see if a local law school has a legal aid clinic or a student interning with a family law attorney. Additionally, if you are a member of a church, synagogue, or other place of worship, perhaps they can offer some assistance too.
Best of luck, and I hope this is the BEST ANSWER as far as how to try to get legal representation.
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