I am an active duty as an E4 as of Oct 2013, currently at AIT in VA and married since Aug 2012. She had 2 kids prior marriage. At DEERS I enrolled her and two kids as dependents. We have been many confrontation which led to separation and now she is threatening that she is entitled to full BAH and she is going to complain to my 1st Sgt.
She lives in VA. Kids are not mine, neither adopted by me. She doesn't live with me, so do kids. No separation papers signed yet. Do I calculate with or without dependents? Do I pay alimony since we are married only little over a year?
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