I was married and pregnant at 16. We never lived together. He has been in the Navy since we got married 8 years ago. My son is now 8 years old and has only seen his father a few times for brief visits. For the past two years there has been no contact at all. Now I am getting remarried and he wants to adopt my son. For the first time in this little boys life he could have an opportunity to have a man love him and call him his son. How can he adopt him if my ex does not give up parental rights? He doesnt have anything to do with this child.