Your Congressman can make an inquiry, but he cannot reverse a decision by the US Consulate.
Mr. Shusterman's (former INS Trial Attorney, 1976-82) response to your question is general in nature, as not all the facts are known to him. You should retain an attorney experienced in immigration law to review all the facts in your case in order to receive advice specific to your case. Mr. Shusterman's statement above does not create an attorney/client relationship.
Amigo, your Congressman's "help" in Juarez will not even amount to a pack of refried beans..especially so with an alien smuggling ground of inadmissibility, which is a "lifetime" "bar" (not a "cantina") . Soon you'll have to choose, am afraid:
1. New wife, or
2. Move to some godforsaken place I'm Mexico.. Sorry.
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