If you want to withdraw your petition, you can do so by letter to the clerk's office or by appearing at the next appearance date and telling the judge you want to withdraw.
Please understand that your home DNA test will not have any legal significance.
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You can simply not appear or ask tell the court when you get there. I would not do this however, as a DNA does not establish paternity as far as a court is concerned.
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If you will be seeking child support then you will need an order of paternity and a court order to make sure you receive your child support if it is not paid voluntarily.
If your over-the-counter test kit establishes the question of paternity to the parties' satisfaction, then the they should sign an Acknowledgment of Paternity and both should be listed on the child's birth certificate. If there is any doubt about paternity, then you should continue with your paternity case. You can withdraw your petition, if you are the Petitioner, by not appearing on the return date of the case, sending a notarized letter to the Family Court which contains the Docket Number assigned to the case indicating your desire to withdraw, or going in person and telling the Referee/Family Court Judge you have decided to withdraw the matter. By itself, your DNA home test kit has no legal signicance.
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You should NOT withdraw your petition. Even if the at home DNA kit proves paternity, without a court order there is NO legal establishment of paternity.
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