We just recently went to court it was brought up that the other parent goes on Facebook and says that I'm a bad parent and a horrible person they blame me for not seeing the child. One day after that court date they are continuously saying things about me ignoring what the judge told them about moving on and not writing things about the other parent. I fear that when my child goes over for visitation the other parent is saying bad things to our child. They have called me bad words in front of our child and my child comes back acting strange when they come back from the visitation. He doesn't want to go over there when i drop him off and he started he cries when he goes over there cuz he wants to go home. When I ask him what he does over there he says i don't know. Can i do something?
The way to bring these things before the court is a 730 eval. In the meantime, get therapy for both you and the child.
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Things posted on social media are very easy to document. DO - Take and keep printouts of the things being posted online. Document in a journal, calendar or some other format the various visitations and your son's behavior when he returns. These things are useful for the court, especially if the other party has already been warned about the behavior. DON'T - Grill your child when he returns from visits or give him the impression that he is "telling on" the other party. Do your best to leave him out of it and work to prove up the bad behavior in other ways that aren't potentially damaging to your child. Best of luck.
I agree with my Avvo colleagues. It's possible that your X contains trashing you to situations in which your child is not present. I suggest having an older child and/or responsible adult with your child during some of X's visitation thus giving you a monitor.
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